Musings race through your brains, an internal monolog of ideas, great considerations, indifferent things, and even reactions and mean contemplations. Sometimes the onslaught of ideas is too much and you open your mouth and say things you very rapidly regret. A succession of embarrassment, distress, takes after and you wonder what you can do.
While it may seem impossible to change your considerations or even to moderate the cascading stream of contemplations it is possible. A river does not typically change course suddenly, but rather gradually moves. There are those who can change a river rapidly, and those who can wake up one morning and decide to change musings for a better life. For most it takes minor changes that development and provides success.
For many, people, negative ideas and contemplations are more typical than positive. Even if the negative musings are directed at you, they are destructive. On the off chance that they are directed outside, you do not realize what consequences will happen. Perhaps you think telling someone they look completely awful in that outfit will help them change the world. Yet they may be mean to someone else later in the day. The problem with not attempting to be positive is the lack of control. Your musings are not limited to you. Regardless of what you think, when you interact with others, it changes how they act. So when you are negative, they may be mean to someone else. That other person may be nasty to another person. It is like tossing a snowball down a slope and watching it develop.
You may believe that self feedback is legitimately deserved. Perhaps you figure offending your own work will keep your ego under control. All this negative energy harms, it harms you by not allowing yourself great musings you are denying the world of your potential. Yourself talk is reflected in your interactions with others. While you may think your musings are contained, if your positive behavior is not genuine, people notice. Perhaps you can be an adequate actor to trick the greater part of the people, yet you are not tricking those closest to you. You are also not tricking yourself, which is your true character.
Think positive. When a negative idea flies into your psyche, see how you can make it positive. When you begin to talk positively to yourself, you unleash your potential. You cannot change the world by changing others. You can change your musings, and then you change yourself. This is what creates a better world, because each life you touch touches others and gradually changes the whole world.